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Helping Moms Overcome the Fear and Uncertainty of Divorce.

Helping Moms Overcome the Fear and Uncertainty of Divorce.

Your next chapter isn’t just waiting, it’s yours to create.
Let’s make it one you love.

Your next chapter isn’t just waiting,
it’s yours to create.
Let’s make it one you love.

Not sure what’s next?

Let’s figure it out together.

Divorce isn’t just one decision—it’s a series of them, and each one feels overwhelming (and expensive). Maybe you’re questioning whether to stay or go. Maybe you’re ready to leave but feel stuck. Or maybe the
decision was made for you, and now you’re wondering how to rebuild—without draining your bank account in the process. No matter where you are, you don’t have to do this alone.

I’ll help you cut through the confusion and take back control—so you can make smarter decisions and reduce the risk of unnecessary legal bills and expensive mistakes. With the right strategies, tools, and a little bit of tough love, you’ll go from feeling stuck to stepping into your power.

Together, we’ll map out a plan that works for you—one that makes life easier, not harder—so you and your kids can move forward with confidence (and with more money in your pocket). Sound good? Let’s do this.

“When something bad happens you have three choices. You can either let it define you, let it destroy you, or let it strengthen you.”

Hi there!

I’m Brooke Gaston, founder of A Life Reimagined, a Certified Divorce Coach, a Master Certified Professional Coach, and a divorced mom of three who’s been exactly where you are. I know the fear, overwhelm, and endless questions about what comes next. No matter how you got here, one thing is certain—you want to know that you (and your kids) will be okay. I won’t just tell you it’s possible—I’ll help you get there.

With practical information, real strategies, and thought-provoking questions, I’ll help you move through this chapter with more conviction and less second-guessing. It won’t always be easy, and some days may test you, but you don’t have to go through it feeling lost and uncertain. Let’s make sure you come out of this stronger, wiser, and with a future you can look forward to.

Don’t Just Survive Divorce — Rise Stronger.

Divorce isn’t just a legal process — it’s an emotional, financial, and personal transformation. You don’t have to navigate it alone.
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Divorce Support Services

PRIVATE coaching

Personalized support to help you navigate your next steps with clarity and confidence.

Divorce can feel overwhelming — but having a trusted guide by your side can make all the difference. Through one-on-one coaching, you’ll get tailored guidance, actionable strategies, and compassionate support for whatever stage you’re in: deciding whether to stay or go, navigating the divorce process, or rebuilding after it’s over. Together, we’ll create a customized plan that aligns with your goals, your values, and your future.

group coaching

Small group support for moms who want expert insight and a community who gets it.

You don’t have to do this alone — and you shouldn’t have to. In my small, online group coaching sessions, you’ll work alongside women navigating the same stage of divorce. You’ll get practical guidance, step-by-step game plans, simple shifts that can lead to powerful change, and the kind of support that only comes from people who truly understand. Whether you’re contemplating divorce, in the thick of it, or finding your footing after, you’ll build clarity, confidence, and community — together.

masterclass

Build a strong, smart plan for your next chapter — before you make your move.

Thinking about divorce but feeling stuck, or even scared? The Exit Strategy Masterclass is a powerful, 3-day live online experience that gives you more than just information—it gives you a plan. You’ll stop spinning in fear and overwhelm and start building a personalized, strategic roadmap for your next chapter. We’ll walk through the five pillars of divorce—Legal, Financial, Logistical, Emotional, and Parenting—so you’ll be ready to move forward feeling grounded, informed, and in control.

Private Coaching

Personalized support, tailored to your journey.

Divorce isn’t one-size-fits-all—and neither is the support you need. Private Divorce Coaching is a custom, one-on-one experience designed to help you think clearly, plan strategically, and move forward with intention—before, during, or after divorce.

If you’re still contemplating the decision or already in the process, I help you get organized, emotionally steady, and clear on what matters most—so when you meet with attorneys or mediators, you’re prepared, not overwhelmed. This work is about more than just logistics. Together, we can tune into the emotional, legal, financial, parenting, and practical pieces—so you can make smart, well-informed decisions that reflect your values, not someone else’s checklist.

And if the papers are signed but you’re still experiencing resentment, ongoing conflict, or uncertainty on how to rebuild—we’ll focus on helping you reclaim your voice, reset your boundaries, and rebuild a life that feels like yours again.

More Ways I can help:

Before Divorce

  • Determine if you want to heal your marriage or start the divorce process
  • Learn tools/strategies to improve your relationship
  • Create a roadmap and action plan if divorce is forthcoming
  • Determine the level of support you need/want from divorce professionals
  • Prepare for interviews with attorneys and other experts so you have confidence in your team

DURING DIVORCE

  • Outline realistic divorce goals that align with your reimagined future
  • Avoid common divorce pitfalls and self-sabotaging behaviors
  • Get organized for meetings with lawyers, mediators, and other divorce professionals
  • Get mentally prepared for mediation and court proceedings & sharpen negotiating skills
  • Develop a parenting plan you feel good about
  • Regulate your emotions in high conflict situations to improve decision-making skills

AFTER DIVORCE

  • Navigate life as a single parent
  • Move out of the past and adopt a future-focused mindset while enjoying the present
  • Better manage stressful interactions with Ex
  • Improve co-parenting dynamics
  • Support children as they adjust to new reality
  • Build a support network
  • Explore career change opportunities and aspirations
  • Create action steps that support your goals

Private Coaching Packages

My coaching packages are designed to give you the guidance and support you need—whether you’re looking for a quick jumpstart or ongoing help as you figure out your next steps. But here’s the thing: real progress takes commitment. Clarity, confidence, and a sense of control don’t just happen—you build them, one step at a time.

No matter where you are in the process, we’ll focus on what’s weighing on you most—so you can make decisions and take action without delay and constant second-guessing. 

BONUS: All private coaching clients will receive FREE access for 1–3 months (depending on your package) to The Strategy Room — my exclusive online community for current and former students and clients. 

Hot Button Package

$510

A condensed offering to address the hot button issues keeping you up at night.

Two (2) 60 minute sessions ($255/ea).

Transformation Package

$2300

A more comprehensive experience to foster significant progress in areas such as the business aspects of divorce, negotiation, improving your mindset, and strengthening your emotional regulation skills to encourage greater peace.

Ten (10) 60 minute sessions ($230/ea).

Confidence Package

$1200

Designed to tackle several key concerns, issues, or road blocks and boost your confidence in your actions and decision making.

Five (5) 60 minute sessions ($240/ea).

Group Coaching

Find clarity, community, and confidence — together.
In small groups of 4–8 moms navigating similar stages of divorce, you’ll get expert coaching, tools, and encouragement in a supportive, non-judgmental space. Each group is thoughtfully organized by stage of divorce to ensure you’re surrounded by women who truly understand what you’re going through. Together, we’ll work through the emotions, decisions, and logistics, so you can move forward with more strength, less stress, and a whole lot more support.
Choose the group that matches where you are:

BEFORE DIVORCE

For moms still deciding whether to stay or go
  • Clarify whether you want to heal your marriage or prepare for divorce
  • Learn communication and relationship tools that can create change — or clarity
  • Create a personal roadmap if divorce becomes the next step
  • Explore emotional readiness and the mindset shifts needed
  • Prepare for conversations with attorneys or other professionals if needed
  • Connect with others facing the same heartbreaking (and empowering) decision

DURING DIVORCE

For moms navigating the divorce process
  • Outline realistic divorce goals based on your reimagined future
  • Learn how to avoid common legal and emotional pitfalls
  • Get organized for meetings with lawyers, mediators, and experts
  • Build your skills for negotiation, mediation, and court
  • Develop parenting plans that feel good for you and your kids
  • Practice emotional regulation skills for high-conflict situations
  • Share strategies and wins with others who truly get it

AFTER DIVORCE

For moms rebuilding life after divorce 
  • Navigate the realities of single parenting with more confidence
  • Let go of the past and build a future-focused mindset
  • Learn how to manage stressful interactions with an Ex
  • Strengthen co-parenting skills and healthy boundaries
  • Explore career, financial, and life goals post-divorce
  • Build a support network with women who are rising stronger too
What you’ll get:
Note: All participants will sign a confidentiality pledge agreeing to respect each other’s privacy and maintain a judgment-free, supportive environment.

your Investment

$749

Ready to find your people and your power?

Exit Strategy Masterclass

Plan smart. Move strong. Protect your future.

If you’re thinking about divorce but feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure where to even start — this Masterclass was made for you. My Exit Strategy Masterclass is a 3-day accelerated, in-depth, and outcome-focused experience that gives you the knowledge, tools, and confidence to create a clear, empowered path forward. We’ll tackle the five major areas you must understand to craft a strong divorce strategy — so you’re not reacting, you’re leading.

Here’s what we’ll cover:

LEGAL

Understand the basic legal process of divorce — what you need to know early, what you can (and can’t) control, and how to start building a team of professionals that support your goals without breaking the bank.

You’ll Learn:
  • Divorce process overview and options (filing, mediation, court, agreements)
  • What you need to know about divorce laws in your state
  • Making sense of the paperwork
  • Questions to ask when hiring an attorney or mediator
  • Common legal myths that keep moms stuck and scared

FINANCIAL

Get crystal clear on your financial reality so you can make informed, empowered decisions — not emotional ones.

You’ll Learn:
  • What financial documents to gather and organize now
  • How to create a realistic post-divorce budget
  • Understand your settlement options
  • What every mom should know about support and shared expenses
  • The keys to financial independence
  • Financial mistakes to avoid when emotions are high

LOGISTICAL

Divorce isn’t just legal and emotional — it’s a logistical project. We’ll tackle how to plan for the real-world shifts that will happen in your daily life.

You’ll Learn:
  • How to create an exit timeline that protects you and your kids
  • What steps to take when planning for separation
  • Housing considerations and transitional planning
  • How to plan “the talk” with your spouse in an honorable and safe way
  • How to divide “all the stuff” and their role in negotiations

EMOTIONAL

Divorce is a marathon, not a sprint. You’ll learn how to manage fear, grief, anger, and uncertainty so you can move forward powerfully — not from a place of pain.

You’ll Learn:
  • How to ready yourself for co-parenting and time without the kids
  • How to set boundaries without guilt
  • Tools for emotional regulation during tough conversations
  • How to rebuild your mental and emotional core
  • Practices to rediscover yourself and develop your confidence and resilience

PARENTING

You’re not just divorcing your spouse — you’re protecting your children’s future too. We’ll dive into parenting plans, communication strategies, and ways to keep your kids emotionally safe.

You’ll Learn:
  • How to tell the kids in an age-appropriate and supportive way
  • How to choose the right co-parenting style for your situation
  • How to begin crafting a Parenting Plan that addresses your children’s needs and your concerns
  • Ways to support your children emotionally during transitions
  • Strategies for minimizing conflict in front of kids

LEGAL

Understand the basic legal process of divorce — what you need to know early, what you can (and can’t) control, and how to start building a team of professionals that support your goals without breaking the bank.

You’ll Learn:
  • Divorce process overview and options (filing, mediation, court, agreements)
  • What you need to know about divorce laws in your state
  • Making sense of the paperwork
  • Questions to ask when hiring an attorney or mediator
  • Common legal myths that keep moms stuck and scared

FINANCIAL

Get crystal clear on your financial reality so you can make informed, empowered decisions — not emotional ones.

You’ll Learn:
  • What financial documents to gather and organize now
  • How to create a realistic post-divorce budget
  • Understand your settlement options
  • What every mom should know about support and shared expenses
  • The keys to financial independence
  • Financial mistakes to avoid when emotions are high

LOGISTICAL

Divorce isn’t just legal and emotional — it’s a logistical project. We’ll tackle how to plan for the real-world shifts that will happen in your daily life.

You’ll Learn:
  • How to create an exit timeline that protects you and your kids
  • What steps to take when planning for separation
  • Housing considerations and transitional planning
  • How to plan “the talk” with your spouse in an honorable and safe way
  • How to divide “all the stuff” and their role in negotiations

EMOTIONAL

Divorce is a marathon, not a sprint. You’ll learn how to manage fear, grief, anger, and uncertainty so you can move forward powerfully — not from a place of pain.

You’ll Learn:
  • How to ready yourself for co-parenting and time without the kids
  • How to set boundaries without guilt
  • Tools for emotional regulation during tough conversations
  • How to rebuild your mental and emotional core
  • Practices to rediscover yourself and develop your confidence and resilience

PARENTING

You’re not just divorcing your spouse — you’re protecting your children’s future too. We’ll dive into parenting plans, communication strategies, and ways to keep your kids emotionally safe.

You’ll Learn:
  • How to tell the kids in an age-appropriate and supportive way
  • How to choose the right co-parenting style for your situation
  • How to begin crafting a Parenting Plan that addresses your children’s needs and your concerns
  • Ways to support your children emotionally during transitions
  • Strategies for minimizing conflict in front of kids
What you’ll get:
Note: All participants will sign a confidentiality pledge agreeing to respect each other’s privacy and maintain a judgment-free, supportive environment.
Ready for a smarter divorce with less second-guessing and more confidence? Join the waitlist today and be the first to secure your spot in my upcoming class.
You don’t have to stumble through this alone. Let’s build a plan that gives you a clear path forward — one you can feel good about.
“Change is hard at first, messy in the middle, and gorgeous at the end.”

IS CERTIFICATION important?

While many self-proclaimed divorce experts may offer coaching services, choosing a certified coach who has received comprehensive divorce and alternative dispute resolution training from a reputable institution provides important benefits.
“Pause and remember – You will make it to the other side of this hardship. One day you will look back with wiser eyes, understanding and gratitude. Hang in there!”

My Story

As a seasoned Line Producer with over 20 years in the entertainment industry, I have spent my career helping transform my clients’ ideas into unique and successful commercial campaigns on time and under budget. I developed a reputation for being a strategic and effective problem solver with a cool and calm demeanor, especially when faced with stressful and seemingly impossible situations. Negotiating and mediating have been cornerstones of my role that I have always enjoyed.
When my marriage of 10 years ended in 2018, these valuable attributes I had worked hard to master seemed to disappear overnight and I began feeling like an imposter. I felt broken, scared, and overwhelmed by the uncertainty surrounding my future and the future of my three young children. Once the shock and devastation finally began to diminish I knew I had to pick up the pieces, work on getting my confidence back, and reimagine my future. It wasn’t always easy.
A devoted lifelong learner, I decided to view my divorce as an opportunity for growth and began a journey of self-exploration and self-improvement, aiming to evolve into a more enlightened woman, nurturing mother, empowering leader and compassionate partner. I gained valuable knowledge from many thought leaders and spiritual teachers and soon came to realize that we are hardwired for resilience.
We all possess indestructible, innate strengths cultivated throughout our lifetime that compel us to rise after every setback.
This understanding continues to propel me closer to the person I aspire to be, and it can do the same for you.

My Turning Point

(and a valuable lesson)

When I started separating my emotions from the business of divorce, I realized I already had a lot of skills to navigate it effectively. My ability to stay calm under pressure, think strategically, and negotiate fair outcomes—things I had mastered in my career—became invaluable.
By shifting my focus to understanding my options, developing smart strategies, and taking a more realistic view of potential outcomes, I was able to negotiate my settlement and parenting plan in a way that was amicable, financially smart, and aligned with my long-term goals. That turning point didn’t just change my divorce—it shaped the way I help other women navigate theirs today.

Why I Do This Work

Back in March 2022, I started a local divorce support group because, let’s be honest—divorce can feel like being dropped in the middle of nowhere without a map, and I didn’t want other moms to go through it alone. I wanted to create a space where women could vent, get support from others who actually understood, and feel like they belonged somewhere again. Basically, I built the group I wish had existed when I was in the thick of it.
As I listened to more and more moms share their stories, something clicked—I couldn’t just sit on the sidelines. Too many women were overwhelmed, blindsided, and draining their savings accounts just trying to survive divorce. I saw firsthand how unnecessary conflict and bad advice were making things so much harder than they needed to be—for moms, for their kids, and for their futures.
That’s why I’m on a mission to cut through the noise and dispel the outdated myths about divorce that keep so many families stuck in unnecessary battles. The truth? Divorce doesn’t have to be a war. It doesn’t have to ruin your finances or your peace of mind. You and your kids deserve a future that feels secure, stable, and—dare I say—happy. And I’m here to help you make that happen.

What Clients Have To Say

“For the first time ever, I got support for my relationship with my son, and I’m so glad I did. Brooke helped me figure out how I could support my son with learning the valuable life lessons I want him to in a way that was positive for both of us. I’m so grateful for how she gently led me to the answers. She’s amazing!! “
Aja
“I can confidently say that Brooke has helped me navigate my divorce and feel more confident in my decision making and negotiation strategies. She is kind, empathetic, trustworthy and makes a genuine effort to connect with my personal experience. She has a calm presence that is essential to helping, especially those with big or negative feelings, work through their divorce in a positive manner.”
Sarah
“Divorce is hard and overwhelming, but working with Brooke is a game changer. She helped me create my parenting plan and go into mediation with clarity and confidence. Her knowledge, support and guidance are priceless. I would not have been able to create the life I have now with my children had it not been for her help. Thank you Brooke!”
Julie

Schedule a Free Consultation

Are you finally ready to take control of your future?
Let’s spend 30 minutes exploring how I can support you on your journey.

We’ll cover:

  • What your hot button issues are
  • Goals and desired outcomes you’ve identified
  • Roadblocks you’ve encountered or foresee
  • My style of coaching and services
  • Any questions you may have
  • Next steps

*Limited spots are available, so please book only if you’re seriously considering private coaching and ready to invest in yourself.

Faqs

Securing the expertise of a divorce attorney is pivotal for navigating the legal intricacies of divorce. They excel at providing legal guidance, explaining clients' rights and obligations within family law, and advocating for their interests in legal settings. However, due to their legal focus, they may not have the bandwidth or specialized knowledge to address the myriad of factors that shape divorce outcomes.

Divorce attorneys typically don’t provide clients with conflict resolution techniques, coping strategies and emotional regulation skills, which can have significant benefits during negotiations and improve outcomes. Furthermore, they might not have the inclination, time, or patience to provide clients with a holistic understanding of the divorce process, explore their aspirations to guide decision-making, or help them evaluate the practical consequences their decisions will have post-divorce.

In the context of parenting concerns, attorneys may lack understanding or underestimate the significance of crafting a comprehensive parenting plan. This oversight becomes particularly evident when clients are too overwhelmed or ill-equipped to understand and articulate their immediate and future needs, leading to regrets down the road.

From a financial perspective, divorce attorneys typically have the highest hourly rate of all the professionals in your support network. Over utilizing their services when a more cost-effective divorce expert exists is a decision that may strain your resources and hinder your ability to achieve specific objectives. Moreover, attorneys may have a vested financial interest in prolonging contentious divorces.

By partnering with a divorce coach, you gain an unbiased thought partner to secure a well-rounded support system, along with access to a wealth of emotional insight, conflict resolution skills, and personalized planning, enriching your legal strategy and empowering you to create a positive and thriving future after divorce.

By providing emotional support, improving communication, and promoting efficient decision-making, a divorce coach can significantly contribute to saving a client both time and money during the divorce process.

  • Clarifying Priorities:  A divorce coach helps clients identify their priorities and focus on what truly matters to them. By avoiding unnecessary legal battles over less significant issues, clients can save on legal fees.
  • Managing Emotional Stress:  Divorce coaches provide emotional support and coping strategies, helping clients manage stress and make clearer decisions. Emotional stability can prevent impulsive, costly decisions made out of frustration or anger.
  • Document Preparation:  While divorce coaches aren't lawyers, they can assist in organizing necessary documents and information. This organization can streamline the legal process, reducing billable hours with attorneys.
  • Goal Setting: Divorce coaches help clients set realistic goals for their divorce settlement. Understanding what is achievable and focusing on attainable outcomes can prevent protracted legal disputes, saving both time and money.
  • Education and Empowerment: By educating clients about the legal process, divorce coaches empower them to make informed decisions. Knowledgeable clients are better equipped to work efficiently with their legal team, preventing unnecessary consultations and research time.
  • Preventing Court Battles: Through coaching, clients are encouraged to explore and practice alternative dispute resolution methods, such as negotiation and mediation, rather than resorting to costly and time-consuming court battles.

No. Divorce coaches are trained not to give ANY advice or engage in the unauthorized practice of law, unless they are a licensed attorney, in which case they are ethically obligated to keep that service separate from the coaching space. Divorce coaches may help clients get organized and prepared for meetings with attorneys and financial advisors (such as CDFAs) and educate clients with general knowledge in the divorce realm. Specific questions that come up about their case are often written down to be discussed later with the appropriate expert.

Therapy often explores past experiences, emotions, and unresolved issues, aiming to understand their impact on the present. Coaching is forward focused, dedicated to setting and attaining goals, honing new skills, and enhancing areas of life that may currently be sources of stress, anxiety, or hardship.

While my expertise lies in supporting mothers, I also assist fathers and individuals without children, as well as clients facing various life transitions. Whether it's moving forward after a loss, preparing for a significant life event, contemplating a career change, or enhancing relationships with friends, family, or romantic partners, I offer coaching services to a diverse global clientele across a range of topics.

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